Thomas More (1478-1535) |
"More
is a man of an angel's wit and singular learning. I know not his
fellow. For where is the man of that gentleness, lowliness and
affability? And, as time requireth, a man of marvelous mirth and
pastimes, and sometime of as sad gravity. A man for all seasons."
(Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Man_for_All_Seasons).
Tonight
I ended up thinking about the movie A Man for All Seasons
and its title when considering the different approaches
required (if any) when one is before a friendly audience as
contrasted with a hostile audience. Once I had to speak before an
audience and was nervous about it. A person I much admired (and who
was an accomplished speaker himself) said privately to comfort me
“Just remember, you will be in front of friends.” That is, I
could count on the audience pulling for me, wanting me to succeed,
always giving me the benefit of the doubt. Contrast this with the
situation when one is before a dubious or downright hostile audience.
Then, the audience can be condemnatory, wanting the speaker to fail,
and questioning—even more—cynically sure that all the speaker's
motives are bad. In the first instance one is called upon to
flourish in an environment of goodwill. In the second, one is called
upon to turn away wrath while undergoing the active siege of ill
will.
How
does “a man for all seasons” speak under each of these
contrasting conditions. Surely and inevitably, there will be some
differences between the two. Yet, the core of More's character was
his adherence to conscience. No doubt, he assiduously would let
“conscience be his guide” in both situations. Jesus gave the
following advice: “When you are brought before synagogues,
rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend
yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you
at that time what you should say” (Luke 12:11-12 NIV). In a
sense, all speeches are impromptu even when prayed about and
considered in advance. The important thing to keep in mind is not
the attainment of some phony, disingenuous harmony perpetrated by
the speaker or the audience, but that both audience and speaker
follow the leadings of their conscience even if disagreements occur.
It is roundly to be hoped that this understanding “to agree to
disagree” will in its own way make for respect and goodwill. This
largely depends upon the willingness of both sides to respect
integrity born of conscience. In the end, God does not judge us en
masse, but individually. Largely, tolerance requires a measure of
humility (as, indeed, any contentment of soul depends upon it). When
Henry VIII had More beheaded, he mistook himself for God. Thus, a
matter of what should have been limited contention was
inappropriately escalated to absolute rectitude.
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