If two people are friends and one knows the other
is defensive about their eyeglasses, the least desirable subject of
conversation would be glasses. Just so,
friends particularly if they suspect some degree of disagreement typically do
not broach subjects of politics or religion because neither wants to arouse or
experience profound anxieties and feelings of vulnerability. On the other hand, if they are enemies and
want to inflict pain on each other, they will rant on the subjects until the wee
hours of the morning.
Human beings in the nature of things are obliged
to deal with both topics. The challenge
is to bring this about and yet maintain a steady and healthy level of goodwill.
To accomplish this we spend a considerable portion of our time with those who
agree with us and coincidentally affirm those in opposition by respecting their
right to thoughts and opinions arising from their own experience and beliefs. Whether we consider their politics or
religion as legitimate may be open to question, but their role and responsibility
to decide for themselves on these matters is not.
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